How to Ask a Girl to Dance

Whether you're at a casual party or a formal event, asking a girl to dance can be frightening and stressful. The good news, however, is that it isn't as hard as it seems. With the right attitude and a bit of self-confidence, you can walk up to any girl, ask her to dance and have fun doing it.

Instructions

1

Choose a girl you want to ask to dance out of the crowd. She should preferably be someone you both know and have some sort of romantic interest in, although she could also be simply a good friend.

2

Calm down and head on over to where she's hanging out. If she's already dancing with someone, keep your distance and wait until he or she moves off until you move in.

3

Think about what you're going to say, but don't overdo it. Nervous guys tend to over think their invitations, which leads them to make strained and occasionally awkward comments. Stick with something simple, like "Would you like to dance?"

4

Walk up to the girl, put a smile on your face and deliver your line. If she's with a group of friends, it might be more appropriate to direct your invitation to all of the girls in the group. That way you don't seem creepy.

5

Enjoy the dance if she says "Yes," but back off if she says "No." She might have any number of good reasons for turning you down and she's certainly not obligated to dance with you just because you asked.

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Whether you're at a casual party or a formal event, asking a girl to dance can be frightening and stressful. The good news, however, is that it isn't as hard as it seems. With the right attitude and a bit of self-confidence, you can walk up to any girl, ask her to dance and have fun doing it.

Instructions

1

Choose a girl you want to ask to dance out of the crowd. She should preferably be someone you both know and have some sort of romantic interest in, although she could also be simply a good friend.

2

Calm down and head on over to where she's hanging out. If she's already dancing with someone, keep your distance and wait until he or she moves off until you move in.

3

Think about what you're going to say, but don't overdo it. Nervous guys tend to over think their invitations, which leads them to make strained and occasionally awkward comments. Stick with something simple, like "Would you like to dance?"

4

Walk up to the girl, put a smile on your face and deliver your line. If she's with a group of friends, it might be more appropriate to direct your invitation to all of the girls in the group. That way you don't seem creepy.

5

Enjoy the dance if she says "Yes," but back off if she says "No." She might have any number of good reasons for turning you down and she's certainly not obligated to dance with you just because you asked.